THIS POST HAS BEEN UPDATED DUE TO PASSAGE OF THE YEARS: IT WAS FIRST CREATED IN 2013.
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Light memorial in New York City. |
Holding
hands.
NEARLY A QUARTER CENTURY has
passed since the attacks on 9/11, and it still seems like it happened this
morning.
I retired from teaching seventeen years ago. But if I were in a classroom today
here’s what I’d be doing. I’d be showing a compilation of film clips recorded
in 2001. I taught seventh grade. Today’s seventh graders – and even seniors in
college – weren’t yet born on that fated day. I’d show them scenes filled with
people falling, falling, from the North and South Towers. What moments of
terror those must have been for the desperate victims. And I’d add this detail,
because I’d want the kids to have a sense of what it was like for real human
beings that horrific day. I’d tell them some of those who leaped from those
burning buildings were holding hands, perhaps with friends, perhaps with loved
ones, where they had been trapped by smoke and flames.
It’s this small gesture that might touch the hearts of kids all these years
later and provide a sense of what a loss our nation suffered.
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No one
ever vacuumed the lawn again.
WHO WERE THOSE PEOPLE who died
that day? Steven Coakley was coming off his regular shift with Engine Company
217 in Brooklyn just as the first plane struck. On five separate occasions, as part
of his job, he had helped deliver babies. This was different. Coakley and the
rest of Engine 217 rushed to the scene. Sal Fiumefreddo, a telephone
technician, had a one-day assignment to install equipment at the trade centers.
Divorced and feeling lonely, he had met Joan Chao at a backyard barbecue in the
summer of 2000. Now, on a crisp day in September, the couple was getting ready
to celebrate their first anniversary. Gary Bird was starting a new job with
Marsh & McClennan.
Normally, he worked out of Phoenix.
On this day, however, he was scheduled for a meeting at the World Trade Center,
beginning at 8:15 a.m.
Let’s remember them. Let’s remember Jill Campbell, the young mother, whose son
Jake was learning to crawl. (She didn’t live long enough to find out, but he
crawled for the first time that day.) Let’s remember Timothy J. Finnerty. A
bond trader at Cantor Fitzgerald, we can assume he was hard at work on the
105th floor of One World Trade Center. Just three days earlier he had enjoyed
himself at his cousin’s wedding. His wife, Theresa, remembered him cutting up,
always his style, and doing the “Lawn Mower Dance,” followed by the “Sprinkler
Dance” at the reception. He was one of 658 employees of his company who
perished in the awful minutes ahead.
At a funeral later, Keith Wiswall spoke fondly of his father and how much he
liked working on his lawn. One day, Keith looked out a window and saw Dad using
a shop vacuum to suck up berries from a neighbor’s tree, because they were
falling on his grass. David Wiswall was 54, on 9/11, when he died. No one ever
vacuumed the lawn again.
Kristin Walsh remembers her mother, Nancy, bringing Carol Flyzik home and
introducing her as “her girlfriend.” It meant an adjustment, but she and her
two brothers came to love their stepmother. Flyzik was one of 76 regular
passengers aboard American Airlines Flight 11, headed for the West Coast on a
business trip. At 8:46 a.m. she perished when the aircraft crashed into the
North Tower. Amy Sweeney was an attendant on the same flight, one of eleven
crew members. When hijackers took over, she remained calm and contacted ground
supervisors, asking them to notify the F.B.I. Her grace and bravery in a
terrible time were no surprise to those who knew her. She died without having a
chance to see her children, Anna, 6, and son, Jack, 4, grow up.
Seth McFarlane, the creator of Family Guy, was meant to be aboard
Flight 11 but arrived at the airport too late.
He was lucky. Others were not.
Mayra Valdes-Rodriguez, last seen alive on the 78th floor as she hustled other
survivors down the stairs of the South Tower, was known for her contagious
laughter. She never made it out. We know Maria Benavente removed her shoes to
speed her descent from the same building. It wasn’t enough. She was still a
little too slow. Bill Biggart, a photojournalist, rushed to the scene in
Lower Manhattan. After the South Tower fell he phoned his wife to say he was
safe. “I’m with the firefighters,” he explained.
Nothing at all to worry about, he wanted her to know.
When the North Tower came down he and the firefighters around him died in the
collapse. Joe Maloney, a firefighter and a Mets fan was killed. Assistant Fire
Chief Gerard Barbara, a Yankees fan, was killed. Mike Carroll, a fifteen-year
veteran with Ladder Co. 3, died along with hundreds of firefighters. Since his
remains could not be found a friend from his softball team carried a helmet
down the aisle at his funeral mass.
Lincoln Quappe, another FDNY veteran, interviewed for a story in March, had
told a reporter, “Every fire is scary. That’s the way it is. You’re a damned
liar if you say you’re not scared.” Even a little fire could get a guy killed.
“It all comes down to fate,” he added. Quappe was responding on 9/11, not to a little fire,
but a huge one, unlike anything he had ever seen. Fate caught him up and swept
him away.
“You
made it!”
STEVEN CAFIERO FIRST “MET” HIS GIRLFRIEND on the Internet. A year passed before
they had a chance to speak in person. In the weeks leading up to 9/11 they were
talking about marriage and planning for children. Peter Gyulavary had also been
blessed by fate, having met his American wife while she was vacationing in
Australia. They settled down in New York City and had a daughter, Geniveve, who
turned 13 around the time of the attacks. Eskedar Melaku, came to this country
from Ethiopia to attend college and decided to build a new life here. Emerita
de la Pena and Judith Diaz Sierra were fast friends and co-workers, each
serving as maid of honor at the other’s wedding. James Martello, a former
Rutgers linebacker, liked to coach his 7-year-old son’s football team when he
wasn’t at work. Sheila Barnes was a fanatic about clipping coupons and saving
money.
None survived.
Jerrold Paskins, 57, was in New York on 9/11 to help complete an insurance
audit. His remains were identified two months later – when a lucky 1976 Bicentennial
silver dollar he carried turned up at Ground Zero. Christine Egan, born in
Hull, England, was visiting her brother Michael in New York. That morning, he
decided to take her up to the restaurant, “Windows on the World,” on the 106th floor, to get a cup
of coffee and a view of the city. Moments before the North Tower collapsed,
Michael managed to reach his wife by phone.
“You made it!” she responded
with immense relief.
“No, we’re stuck,” he admitted.
They were still on the line when his wife watched in horror, on television, as
the building collapsed.
Orasri Liangthanasarn, a native of Thailand and a recent graduate of New York
University, a new administrative assistant at “Windows on the World” died along
with the Hulls. Not one person working or dining in the restaurant that bitter
morning survived.
Peter Hanson, a huge fan of the Grateful Dead, his wife Sue Kim Hanson, a
native of South Korea with a degree in microbiology, and their daughter
Christine Hanson, two-and-a-half years old, were aboard United Flight 175,
originally scheduled to fly from Boston to Los Angeles. Paige Farley-Hackel was
supposed to be aboard. She and her sister Ruth McCourt were taking Ruth’s
daughter, Juliana McCourt, 4, on a trip to Disneyland. At the last minute,
Paige realized she could use frequent flier miles and switched to American
Airlines Flight 11. They planned to meet up in California. Both planes, in a
cruel twist, were taken over by Osama bin Laden’s men and sent hurtling into
buildings.
“I feel
silly, Liz. You’ll have to cancel that.”
HILARY STRAUCH, A NEW JERSEY SIXTH GRADER, was twelve years old on September
11. She had to watch on television at school as the tower where her dad, George
Strauch, worked went down in dust and mangled metal and ruin. Frank Martini and
Pablo Ortiz, both fathers, could have escaped. Instead, they stuck around and
used a crowbar to spring a jammed door and free at least fifty people trapped
in the North Tower. Beth Logler, 31, ran cross-country in high school. Now she
was planning a wedding for December 30, 2001. She wasn’t quite fast enough to
make it to safety that day. Sara Manley Harvey, a Georgetown graduate, had been
married a month. The magenta-colored napkins at the reception had matched the
roses carried by flower girls. Robert A. Campbell, 25, was a painter and window
washer at the World Trade Center. His parents think he was working on the roof
that morning but could never be sure. Brian P. Williams was a high school
football star back in Covington, Kentucky, and moved to the Big Apple to find
work. Joseph J. Hasson III survived a terrible car crash during his freshman
year of college.
Sixteen years later his time ran out in New York.
Brad Vadas found himself trapped in the smoke and ruins on the 88th floor, just
above where the plane struck the South Tower. He managed to leave a phone
message on his fiancé Kris McFerren’s answering machine: “Kris, there’s been an
explosion. We’re trapped in a room. There’s smoke coming in. I don’t know
what’s going to happen. I want you to know my life has been so much better and
richer because you were in it.” He promised he’d try to get out, but to be safe
added, “I love you. Goodbye.” Ed McNally called his wife, too, telling her that
he was in trouble, trapped by flames on the floors below. He told her where to
find his life insurance papers. Then he admitted he’d been planning a surprise
trip to Rome for her fortieth birthday.
“I feel silly, Liz,” he added, “you’ll have to cancel that.”
He asked
for his badge back.
WHO WERE ALL THESE VICTIMS? Rick Rescelora survived heavy fighting in Vietnam
but died in the 9/11 attack. Mike Warchola had one shift left until he retired
from the New York Fire Department. Port Authority police officer Dominick
Pezzulo was trying to free two trapped officers from the wreckage of the South
Tower when the North collapsed, and he was killed by falling beams. John Perry
was turning in retirement papers to the New York Police Department when the
first plane struck. He asked for his badge back and raced to the scene. Moira
Smith, a blond policewoman, was last seen helping injured victims out of the
lobby of the South Tower moments before it came crashing to earth. Ed Nichols,
for one, was bleeding from head, arm and abdomen when Smith took him gently by
the elbow and led him to safety. Then she turned and reentered the lobby. About
that time eyewitness saw melting aluminum pouring out of a gash on the 80th
floor where the hijacked aircraft had hit.
In a 911 call shortly after, an unidentified woman trapped high up in the tower
reported the floor under her was collapsing. Moments later, Greg Milanowycz,
trapped on the 93rd floor, called his father and reported, “The ceiling is
falling, the ceiling is falling.” Then the Tower collapsed.
At 9:37 a third plane, a Boeing 757, carrying 57 passengers and crew, crashed
into the Pentagon, killing all aboard and 125 Americans on the ground. Cheryle
Sincock had been at work inside for hours because she liked to get an early
start whenever possible. Husband Craig, a computer scientist for the United
States Army, usually came to work later. Now, with the Pentagon billowing black
smoke, he found himself caught on the D.C. Metro as it shut down for security
reasons. He sprinted two miles, cutting across highways and through Arlington
National Cemetery. He would help with rescue attempts until 11 p.m., go home
for a brief rest, and return at 4 a.m., hopeful that he might find his wife.
Cheryle didn’t survive.
“O.K. Let’s roll.”
TODD BEAMER, you may recall, was a passenger on United Airlines Flight 93. His
widow, Lisa, would tell reporters later that Todd “really didn’t do much of
anything without a plan.” Her husband was one of the leaders of a passenger
revolt to try to regain control of Flight 93 before the hijackers could destroy
it.
A phone operator heard him ask others, including big Jeremy Glick, a former
high school wrestler and judo champion, and Mark Bingham, an old rugby player:
“Are you guys ready? O.K. Let’s roll.”
And roll they did.
Although they couldn’t save themselves, they did force the hijackers to crash
the plane into a field near Shanksville, Pa. Had they not, Flight 93 was likely
intended to smash into the White House or destroy the Capitol Building in
Washington, D.C.
I WAS IN MY CLASSROOM that
Tuesday morning, myself. I knew this attack meant our nation would probably go
to war. We spent the next few days talking about what war really involves.
Later that year, I had an old B-17 bomber pilot come into class to talk to the
kids. I prepared maps of Afghanistan and that region for our use. We talked
about the religion of Islam – and the perverted brand practiced by Osama bin
Laden and his men.
On September 11, 2013, when I first posted this piece, I had a nice note on
Facebook from one of my old star students, Lynzi Beadle.
She wrote:
I will
never forget where I was 12 years ago on this day. The first towers were hit
when I was in gym class and I didn’t find anything out until English class. Our
principal and assistant principal came and talked to our class. I remember
being very confused and didn’t fully understand until lunch where everyone was
able to see a white screen with the news displayed on it. I’ll NEVER forget
this day because of my social studies teacher. I had his class after lunch and
he was very upset and explained things clearer to us 7th graders. Mr. Viall set
the tone for all of us and I now will never forget how important this day is.
Thank
you, to all the men and women that day who sacrificed their lives to save
others. Thank you to all the firemen, police officers, doctors, nurses and the
brave souls that stood up to the hijackers. Today I ask [everyone] to pray for
all the families that have been affected by 9/11. Thanks to all the service men
and women who have been deployed overseas to keep our freedom. I’m a very
grateful citizen. Thank you!
A good number of my former Loveland students went on to serve in the military
in the years since that terrible day.
Seth Mitchell was killed in action. Kelly Horton Allen worked as a U.S. Army
nurse, Chris Tobias, Chuck Garrett, Mark Jacquez, Adam Davis, and I’m sure
others served bravely in the fight against global terrorism. We have had
veterans come in and talk at my old school, once a year, ever since. I know
both Chuck and Chris have told younger kids, quite clearly, what war is about, the
sacrifices our fighting men and women make, and about the nightmares they
sometimes still have.
(Missy Hollingsworth, another former student, notified me after reading this
post and mentioned three more Loveland grads who served: Drew Hildebrand,
Justin Orr and Kurt Davis.)
Checking my Facebook feed: I can add Todd Huntley, Landon Cheben, Ryan Harvey,
Phil McDaniel, Loren Baldwin, Joe Shipp, Erik Conover, Toby Moses, Bobby Wassel
and Brady Poe.
No doubt many others have or are.
We should remember all those who died so tragically twenty-four years ago today
and all those who serve on this black anniversary.
JULIANA McCOURT would be 29
years old now, had she lived, had she and her mother not planned to go to
Disneyland that September day, so long ago.
Fate was cruel that day, with
nearly 3,000 lives lost. I hope, if there’s a Heaven, Juliana gets to see
Mickey Mouse whenever she wants.
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Falling victim in New York. |
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NYFD chaplain hit and killed by falling body. |
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U. S. Marine serving in Afghanistan, 2013. |